Crying – the headachy and annoying action which occurs not in baby but also for our adults as an effective way to attract attention. However, most of us couldn’t stand the panicking state when out babies cry all the time. If you are here, I bet we share the similar concern.
- Are you about to explore when your baby keep crying non-stop for many times?
- Are you confused every time babies crying without knowing how to calm them down?
- Is it possible for parents to have enough sleep in the first few months of the newborn?
Let’s learn the detail about the “crying language” and how to please and understand your baby. You would be surprised by the importance of crying in the end!
Why Do Babies Cry Excessively?
For babies, crying is their primary way to communicate what they want and how they feel. Thus, newborn parents should expect a lot of crying as their child learns to speak and use body language to communicate. However, sometimes, babies tend to cry excessively.
This can cause stress to parents, especially when the baby won’t stop crying even if they already checked everything. They may start to think that there’s really something wrong with their baby, making them feel more panicky and agitated. Luckily, most of these excessive cries go away as the child ages. Parents also become more sensitive in recognizing the needs of their children over time. This article will guide you on everything you need to know about excessive baby crying and some tips on how to soothe a crying baby for new parents.
Common Reasons Why Babies Cry
For first-time parents, a crying baby may seem overwhelming. However, the key to managing a crying newborn is to identify the probable reasons behind their cries. Here are some of the most common causes why babies cry:
- Hunger– One of the main reasons why babies cry is because of hunger. Most of the time, the crying stops when you feed them. This can also soothe them and lull them to sleep at the same time.
- Sleepiness– Babies often take a few naps a day. This is because their rapid growth requires plenty of rest. Thus, when a baby needs sleep but feels uncomfortable, expect them to cry to get your attention. Then, you can give them a nice bath and a calming massage to send them to sleep. Some babies also tend to calm easily when swaddled on their back.
- Overfeeding– Bloated stomach caused by overfeeding can also cause excessive crying. That’s why most pediatricians recommend a specific feeding time to prevent babies from bloating, which may cause discomfort.
- Uncomfortable clothes– Clothes that make the baby feel too hot or too cold can also trigger excessive crying.
- Some tight-fitting and itchy cloth materials can also add to an agitated child. So always ensure your baby wears something comfortable and weather-appropriate.
- Soiled diaper– Soiled diapers, if not cleaned right away, can cause skin irritation and burns.
- Colic– A colic is a form of excessive crying that happens in some babies during the early months. This causes stress since, most of the time, colic occurs for no apparent reasons. So parents find it hard to soothe colic cries due to the lack of underlying problems.
- Pain– Pain also causes excessive crying for infants. If you think your baby experiences pain and discomfort, always seek your doctor’s advice on managing the symptoms.
Colic is the term for excessive crying in babies. This happens when a baby cries for more than three hours a day which occurs more than three times every week. Colic is quite common, and it happens in more than 40% of all newborns. This occurrence is very stressful for both parents and babies since the crying is usually caused by no apparent reasons. This makes colic babies more challenging to manage and soothe.
Babies often stop crying when they get what they want. For colic babies, however, it’s uncertain what they want and what causes the excessive cries. Luckily, colic usually disappears when babies turn four to five months old.
Differentiating Colic Crying
If you’re not sure if your baby is experiencing colic, here are some tell signs which differs colic from natural baby cries:
- Crying episodes last for more than three hours per day.
- Colic can happen suddenly, even if your baby seems happy and jolly. According to studies, most colic episodes happen during the night.
- Colic cries are louder, more forceful, and can mimic the cries of pain. Some babies also tend to scream during an episode.
- Colic is more difficult to soothe and manage.
The good news is; most colic episodes go away when a baby reaches about four to five months. Although this problem resolves on its own, it’s still important for better management and less stress for parents.
Ways to Soothe a Crying Baby
Since no specific reasons cause colic, soothing a colic cry can be challenging and often complicated. However, here are some tips you can try to help your baby calm down and hopefully lull him to a deep slumber:
- Take your baby’s temperature to rule out fever, which can mean infection. If your baby has a fever, contact your doctor right away or seek medical help.
- Stick to your feeding routine and make sure not to miss or delay feeding time.
- Give a pacifier.
- Check for soiled diapers and change immediately.
- Rock your baby using gentle motion.
- Put your baby in a stroller and take him for a short ride.
- Hold your baby close, rock in gentle motion, and take slow breaths.
- Give your baby a nice, warm bath.
- Gently massage your baby or rub his back.
- Sing your baby’s favorite lullaby.
- Place your baby on your lap and gently tap his back.
- Place your baby in a rocker, motion seat, or swing.
- Play soothing music.
How to Cope with a Colic Baby
Colic babies can be too stressful to manage. Especially when parents already lack sleep, a crying baby can even add to a parent’s frustration and tiredness. However, since colic is something that resolves its own, it’s also essential for parents to look after their own mental and emotional health. In addition, parents should take good care of themselves to give better care for their newborn.
Identify your limitations. Everyone has their limitations. No matter how much you love and care for your newborn, stressors like colic crying can still get the best of you. Thus, know how to identify your limits. Exhausted parents also need rest to recharge and restart. Without rest, you might compromise your physical and mental health. Taking a break, going on a short trip, or talking to your friends and loved ones can help you get the rest you need.
Be patient. Always remember, colic isn’t forever. For example, babies tend to overcome colic crying after a few months. Thus, always think positively and be more patient. You’ll need to put in a lot of work, indeed, but better days will come.
Accept your flaws. New parents often seek perfection. However, no matter what we do, setting a perfect standard for you can only lead to stress and disappointments. Allow yourself to make mistakes and learn as you go along the way. Not all babies are the same. What works for other parents may not work for you. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself; learn to relax and enjoy the journey of being a parent.
Find a support group. Finding a group you can relate to can provide you the support you need to get through the toughest times. If possible, find someone to help you with house chores so you can take that responsibility off your shoulders. You can also ask for a babysitter to help you when you need a break. Enrolling in support groups is always a good option since you can talk to moms and parents who share the same experience with you.
When to Call your Doctor
Colic is a normal occurrence for babies. However, sometimes, colic can lead to other more serious and life-threatening instances. Here are some signs when to call your doctor for immediate help:
- Your baby acts indifferently
- Nonstop intense crying
- When colic episodes worse
Babies Infant crying and become agitated most of the time. That’s because they can’t say what they feel, and they still can’t communicate properly to tell you what they need. A parent’s intuition will most of the time tell you what your child needs, like milk, a change of diaper, or uncomfortable clothing.
However, some babies may experience colic episodes where they tend to cry for hours without any specific reasons. This can cause stress for parents since a crying baby can also make you lose your calm and composure. Luckily, colic goes away on its own. You just need a bit of patience, a few rest days, and you’ll surely overcome it for better days to come.
On the other hand, never hesitate to ask for help when you feel like you need one. Taking care of a baby can be a lot of work already, and when you need to deal with colic episodes, it can really get the best of you. So asking for help and support are the best ways for you to keep your mental and physical health in top shape, so you can tend your baby and provide them the best care possible.